Random Blogs are just my thoughts

My blog is my thoughts and nothing more than that. I do not claim to know the people I blog about.

Recently a parady blog was used by a tabloid to start a vicious rumor about Jessa Duggar's first kiss with her husband. Had the tabloid read earlier entries he/she would have seen that this person was out of her mind and had no personal interactions with the Duggar family. The people who comment were followers of this particular blog and most likely didn't know the family either. But their lies were taken at face value and repeated. Hurtful words turned Jessa and Ben's first kiss into something dirty.

I can understand the reason why they chose to share their first kiss in private. Most of us get to kiss our partner/spouse in private and until that moment they had been denied privacy, why not allow them these precious moments? I could make all kinds of crap up about the family but I choose to share my thoughts on well known family facts.

Ben and Jessa Seewald

Jessa and Ben married today, happily they bucked tradition and did things their way. Jessa wore a beautiful gown that was blush in color. The bodice although modest was stylish , no major alterations was done to distort the designers creation. Ben's suit was not my taste but it showed his personality.

They chose to write their own vows to eachother, instead of saying the generic vows most people use. My husband and I used the generic vows 23 years ago, if we do a vow renewel on our silver anniversary I plan to write my own vows.

Ben and Jessa chose to have their first kiss in private. Good for them! It was the first time they were allowed to be alone and didn't want to have a crowd of people witness their first intimate moment. Most couples have their first kiss in private and not in front of 1000 people.

They chose not to have a wedding cake but ice cream sundaes instead. Why not? It was their wedding.

I am not sure if they did a similar marriage license as Jill and Derick though. Honestly nobody goes into a marriage knowing they might eventually get divorced.

Although I don't agree with their lifestyle I wish them happiness.